Comments on: Desperation Time and 19 Miles Past Screwed

By: Evan

Evan — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 14:03:45 +0000

no problem, let me know. offer still stands

By: Alysson

Alysson — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 01:42:51 +0000

Thank you so much, Jack. And please tell Sherry I said, “thank you”, as well.

By: Alysson

Alysson — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 01:18:03 +0000

Thank you so much, Kim. I know you’ve been going through a lot lately, too. I’m still sending good vibes and positive karma your way, hoping that you continue getting better and that the worst is over for you. I appreciate the donation and more importantly, your friendship. You’re a constant source of inspiration for me and I’m incredibly grateful to have you as a friend.

By: Alysson

Alysson — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 01:15:13 +0000

Thank you so much, Lisa. I appreciate the contribution and taking time to spread the word about my situation. This whole thing has renewed my faith that good people are out there and that lots of them are in my circle of friends. I have no words to express how grateful I am…

By: Alysson

Alysson — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 01:13:20 +0000

It helps a lot. And the spirit behind the contribution is what matters most. I can’t thank you enough. THANK YOU!

By: Alysson

Alysson — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 01:11:34 +0000

On deadline with a couple of design projects right now, but I will definitely touch base with you. Thanks, Evan.

By: Kim Krause Berg

Kim Krause Berg — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 21:16:44 +0000

In addition to what I sent over, I’m looking at my workload and ways to see if you can help. Since I live every day in pain, and work regardless of it, I understand the frustration. But SEO’s, who are known to work hard and with dignity, are never alone and you are surrounded by friends who care

By: Lisa Myers

Lisa Myers — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:59:48 +0000

Hi Aly, what a terrible situation. I feel for you and your friend, and I really hope that every thing turns out ok. I have given a small donation and will spread the word on twitter.

I really admire you for writing this heartfelt blogpost, it takes guts to be so honest.

By: rishil

rishil — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:47:12 +0000

I cant say I can guess how you feel, but I do know how it feels to be helpless due to circumstances. I hope the little contribution I made helps.

I do expect a big hug if we ever meet in real life though.

By: Evan

Evan — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:40:22 +0000

Are you still looking for work? Maybe we can work out a financial arrangement that benefits both of us. Drop me an demail

By: Jack Leblond

Jack Leblond — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:34:49 +0000

Try to keep your head up Alysson. Sherry & I have you in our hearts.

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By: Alysson

Alysson — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 16:32:39 +0000

In your situation, it’s WAY more than you should have given. $1 would have been too much. Thank you doesn’t seem like enough, but I don’t know what else to say. I am profoundly grateful. Thank you.

By: Casey Yandle

Casey Yandle — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 16:22:41 +0000

So sorry to hear about what’s been going on with you! Keep your head up and hang in there. I sent something over to you, it’s not much but hopefully it will help you out!

By: Alysson

Alysson — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:57:30 +0000

I would be…holy crap…filled with undying and never-ending gratitude. If you’re serious, I’d like to discuss the terms and conditions. Please e-mail me at alysson [at] alyssonfergison.com or alfergison [at] gmail.com. I can’t thank you enough for even offering a light at the end of the tunnel.

By: Jenna Gierisch

Jenna Gierisch — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:04:47 +0000

$1,600 is not a big money. I can help you find somebody to pay this amount immediately and you can pay back in next 2 years. No interest required. Just a human helping a human.

By: Alysson

Alysson — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 03:40:00 +0000

Thanks for the suggestions, Meg. I know the KBB value – even in perfect condition, the retail resale value is less than what’s owed on the loan…so they can’t even sell the car to someone else for the amount still owed on the loan. You’d think that would make them more likely to negotiate, but no. She talked to CarMax today and explained everything. They’re unwilling to budge an inch. Either I fork over all $1,600 right now or they repo the car right now.

By: netmeg

netmeg — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 03:34:29 +0000

#1 Go find the blue book value of the car on kbb.com, so you know what you’re dealing with.

#2 Call CarMax and explain as best you can. Unless the car is worth a whole lot of money, they probably would rather work out a payment plan than take it back.

By: Alysson

Alysson — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 03:34:19 +0000

Thanks, Hugo. I appreciate the suggestions and pep talk. I’ll check into the “Mom & Pop” grants you mentioned…

By: Hugo

Hugo — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 03:29:14 +0000

Hey Alysson. Very sorry to hear about what’s going on in your life right now.

Here’s some practical advice: Find out if the county that you live in offers “Mom & Pop” grants. That might be one way to get your hands on a few thousand dollars. Granted, you won’t get the money overnight, but it’s an option.

Here’s some non-practical advice: Hang in there. Keep looking for employment that works for you and keep looking for ways to work out the situation with your car liability. Life can get very very tough at times, but things will ultimately get better. Just keep trying new ways to turn things around.